A blooming ancestor their grandmother and mother
Walks trails with friends in national parks
Eats nothing on holidays feasts on lush landscapes
Scenery fresh delicious but never overpowering
Bird song fills her with love from the cosmos
Ensures no need for holiday dinners or cleanups
Far from awkward phone conversations
About a son’s or daughter’s latest exploit
Where is this family of the Land’s End ad
Sparkling in greens and reds whites golds?
They pose with wan smiles no grandma near a tree
Groaning with ornaments floor littered with packages
Shrouded with enough paper to stuff landfills
Some large enough to choke a blue whale
Perhaps there are genetic or cultural platforms
Undergirding this strange portrait
This small crowd stables a black SUV a red truck
And a metallic sea-green Volvo to dress up in
Remember the maxim: “God gave us our relatives
Thank god we choose our own friends ”
This is America land of independence
From whatever warmth or wisdom Grandma might exude
Freedom from her concerns her face a reminder
That one day they too may be old weak alone
This is America land of Wal-Mart wonders
Where those fit to run will make it big
Those who are aged or frail must fall or fail
Be put aside where they cannot be a nuisance
The heedless young ones carry on
Consuming almost everything in or out of sight
While the outcast wily grandma carries on a revolution
With a small army of compatriots ancient and powerful